If you want some ver'nice stationery (I saw this with a mention of hand-written Save The Dates, but also lovely for thank you notes and generally having grown-up note cards), Horchow's got a fantastic sale on a monogrammed 200pc wardrobe. It's such a steal, you could get both pre- and post-name change sets.
Linens 'n Things has 9.99 Party Packs of 12 champagne flutes and all-purpose goblets.
(I'm not able to make categories, not sure what's going on there.)
Edited to add: Horchow's embossers are fantastic and also extremely reasonable.
